Not Good Enough

Not Good Enough

Lent 8


For the past three years we have explored the connections we have with others.  We’ve woven stories, explored through literature, exchanged recipes, and traveled the world seeking sacred places and artifacts.  Today is International Day of Women and we need to address a common belief that women are – “not good enough”.


“Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.” The spiritualist Rumi gave us our challenge.  However, I am not so concerned with you changing your views on women as I am about you finding value within yourself.  We are all uniquely made individuals and we all have value.  We each bring to the world special talents.  Yes, women generally are the ones who bear children but men also bring unique abilities.  Historically, though, men got all the attention.


In his book “Make the Most of You”, Patrick Lindsay quotes Ralph Waldo Emerson: “Make the most of yourself, for that is all there is of you.”  Lindsay mentions that there are three actions we all can participate in:  leave everything better than how we found it; wear our scars proudly; unleash our own song.  In this series, I want you to plant thoughts that will help you blossom.  I want you to sing and sing your own individual song as it becomes harmonious with the rest of mankind.


Being an individual in this world is not easy.  One of my favorite philosophers of the twentieth century was not a philosopher at all.  She was an actress, the late and magnificently great Katharine Hepburn.  “We are taught you must blame your father, your sisters, your brothers, the school, the teachers – but never blame yourself. It’s never your fault. But it’s always your fault, because if you wanted to change you’re the one who has got to change.”

Colombian writer and reporter Gabriel Garcia Marquez, in his book “Love in the Time of Cholera” explains what we must realize in order to grow a better version of ourselves.  We have to understand that “human beings are not born once and for all on the day their mothers give birth to them, but that life obliges them over and over again to give birth to themselves.”

Too many people go through life believing they are not good enough.  We will discuss this topic another time but for today, I hope the women reading this will know that they are good enough.  Their journey is valuable and their presence on the planet is a gift.  What they accomplish, though, is theirs to make happen.  Whether one works at home or on a global platform, is highly educated or has learned of living from life, we all have value.


The Beatitudes show us that everything is good in its own way.  The quiet have time to learn.  Those that grieve had something or someone of value they loved.  Those who seek righteousness will find it.  We all have value.  We all are good enough when we seek life in all its glory.





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