Fear is a part of life. After all, life is messy. What we can take from the eight beatitudes is that fear can motivate; fear can inspire; fear can teach. Benjamin Franklin once said “tell me and I forget. Teach me and I remember. Involves me and I learn.” The Beatitudes say the same thing. We fail to learn when we let fear become our compass.
Bertrand Russell believed “neither a man not a crowd not a nation can be trusted to act humanely or to think sanely under the influence of a great fear.” Russell was the winner of the 1952 Nobel Prize for Literature for “recognition of his varied and significant writings in which he campoins humanitarian ideals and freedom of thought.”
When we allow fear to guide us, then we fall into what is known as herd mentality. Quoting Russell again – “collective fear stimulates herd instinct, and tends to produce ferocity toward those who are not regarded as members of the herd.”
Men and women are pack animals. We live in social groups and this are conditioned to accept the direction of the herd as absolute and right. If we fail to really think for ourselves and let fear push us, then we have given up a big part of our living and the direction it will take.
There is a lesson to be learned in all aspects of our life. The Beatitudes offer the promise of this. They encourage us to consider what we ourselves know to be true and not to follow the herd. We must strive to avoid pack mentality as well. The tendency for people to act together without a planned direction detracts from individual responsibility. In time this restricts needed social change.
Life has many features. Some of life’s aspects include grief, discord, insecurity, and accusation. Others reflect truth, peace, fulfillment, and mercy. So how do we learn from the positive and resist fearing the negative? How do we let the Beatitudes teach us and dissuade us from herd mentality? How do we take life’s varied events, both good and bad, and not give in to the resulting and natural fear that arises?
The mega hit “I Was Born This Way”, written by Stefani Germanotta who also sings this track and is better known as Lady Gaga, along with Jeppe Laursen, Fernando Garibay, and Paul Blair, offers us some sage advice in answering these question. “Give yourself prudence and love your friends. In the religion of the insecure, … [You] must be [yourself], respect [your] youth. Don’t hide yourself in regret. Just love yourself and you’re set.”