A New Day; A New Detour
Detours in Life
Here I sit thinking about the present and the future after having spent the past several days immersed in the past. The death of a family member brings not just grief but necessary action – all of the very real physical and legal requirements that accompany death. Death was not on my calendar so my schedule required a detour in order to carry on and be proactive in the present. While yesterday’s death has impacted my living, today really is about living and the detour necessary to do so.
Today history will be written. Because of and in spite of the past, new stories will be created. Today we will not spend time in rehashing old living. Today is for living the here and now. It is, after all, the only door to the future. Bold words, huh? Perhaps they are also a little bit scary. Tomorrow I will hopefully return to my well-planned schedule but today, today is for the legend of you, the story that you yourself will write. Today I will navigate the detour life has thrown me to create my present.
Today is a blank canvass. Your story is yours to write. Interact with the world and live. Be the hero or heroine of your own wonderful, magical myth, the story of you today. How do you start? Share a smile. Give a hug. Hold the door open for someone, not just the elderly or the infirmed. “One of the secrets in life is that all that is really worth doing is what we do for others.” Lewis Carroll knew that each day we fall down the rabbit hole called life. He became the legend known as the author of many poems and the children’s classic, “Alice in Wonderland”. Charles Lutwidge Dodgson, famously penned: “I can’t go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.” The he was in the past was Charles Dodgson; now the present he became known as Lewis Carroll.
“Insist on yourself; never imitate. Your own gift you can present every moment with the cumulative force of a whole life’s cultivation; but of the adopted talent of another you have only an extemporaneous half possession. That which each can do best, none but his Maker can teach him.” Ralph Waldo Emerson knew the value of the individual. Today write your own story. Maybe one day we will read; maybe not. What matters is that you live the life you want. This is your day to become what you desire so travel whatever detours present and do so boldly. Today is for writing the story of you.