You are Good Enough

You are Good Enough

Lent 1 – 2019



For the past five years we have explored the connections we have with others.  We’ve woven stories, explored through literature, exchanged recipes, and traveled the world seeking sacred places and artifacts.  March is Women’s History Month, so designated because the history of women has often been ignored.  We need to address a common belief that women are – “not good enough”.


“Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.”
The spiritualist Rumi gave us our challenge.  However, I am not so concerned with you changing your views on women as I am about you finding value within yourself.  We are all uniquely made individuals and we all have value.  We each bring to the world special talents.  Yes, women generally are the ones who bear children but men also bring unique abilities.  Historically, though, men got all the attention.


In his book “Make the Most of You”, Patrick Lindsay quotes Ralph Waldo Emerson: “Make the most of yourself, for that is all there is of you.”  Lindsay mentions that there are three actions we all can participate in:  leave everything better than how we found it; wear our scars proudly; unleash our own song.  In this series, I want you to plant thoughts that will help you blossom.  I want you to sing and sing your own individual song as it becomes harmonious with the rest of mankind.


Being an individual in this world is not easy.  One of my favorite philosophers of the twentieth century was not a philosopher at all.  She was an actress, the late and magnificently great Katharine Hepburn.  “We are taught you must blame your father, your sisters, your brothers, the school, the teachers – but never blame yourself. It’s never your fault. But it’s always your fault, because if you wanted to change you’re the one who has got to change.”


Colombian writer and reporter Gabriel Garcia Marquez, in his book “Love in the Time of Cholera” explains what we must realize in order to grow a better version of ourselves.  We have to understand that “human beings are not born once and for all on the day their mothers give birth to them, but that life obliges them over and over again to give birth to themselves.”


Too many people go through life believing they are not good enough.  We will discuss this topic another time but for today, I hope the women reading this will know that they are good enough.  Their journey is valuable and their presence on the planet is a gift.  What they accomplish, though, is theirs to make happen.  Whether one works at home or on a global platform, is highly educated or has learned of living from life, we all have value.


The Beatitudes are eight blessings recounted by Jesus in the Sermon on the Mount in the Gospel of Matthew. Each is a proverb-like proclamation, without narrative. Four of the blessings also appear in the Sermon on the Plain in the Gospel of Luke, followed by four woes which mirror the blessings.  In a fourth century translation of the Bible, known as the Vulgate, each of the verses contained within what we call the “beatitudes” begins with the word “beati” which translates as happiness or blessed.  Many use this group of scriptures to decry religion since they address groups normally isolated or rejected.


The Beatitudes show us that everything is good in its own way.  The quiet have time to learn.  Those that grieve had something or someone of value they loved.  Those who seek righteousness will find it.  We all have value.  We all are good enough when we seek life in all its glory.  Religion is not about separating and judging.  It is, quite simply, about acceptance and embracing life – all of it, the good and the bad.


Oscar Wilde once said “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”  We often look for the meaning of life and our purpose in exotic, extravagant, external environs.  We really should just look in the mirror.  None of us is perfect and none of us is a Supreme Being.  To honor your own uniqueness does not mean to equate yourself with being a deity or with being egotistical or selfish.  It does mean living according to your faith and celebrating life – the life within all of us.


You, like all of us, have much to offer and the world is waiting for it.  Turn your back on doubt today.  It serves no purpose.  Focus on the positive and let your self-worth be the seed you plant to day in growing a better you and a better world.  You are good enough to be the start of a better future for us all.




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